I have just arrived back from a week away with Cat at a place called chisholme. It would describe itself as a school of esoteric education, and it is, but much more broadly it is a positive place of friendliness and tranquility, somewhere you can go to feel comfortable with your self and relatively at peace with the world. I have come back inspired by the people i have met there, and hopefully I can extend some of these feelings i have got from people into the rest of life.

One thing which I have become more aware of is how good it is to only say what you mean, there are many israeli’s, and a spanish girl, at chisholme, and to totally generalise they are more direct in there way of speaking. One may be offended at first, at the lack of pleasantries and common british introductory ways of speaking. How nice to speak only when you are inspired and what you say is interesting, funny, positive. How nice to feel comfortable in the inevitable silences between these good words. One can say that this is what the Buddha told us about right speech, he said to not gossip, lie, steal other peoples times with pointless words, and generally to speak compassionately and intelligently. I’m not saying that it is not good to gibber on in an amusing way to someone, but to do so only if the gibbering is full of passion and fun.

I sat in on a study sessions (they run courses), and the basic style of study is to read a text, or hear a reading or a teaching, and then to discuss this with your fellow students, helped along by a (wise?) supervisor who is there to lead the conversation in a good direction if needs be, but not to Teach anything. 

and the food is spectacular

www.beshara.org

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